This post was most recently updated on December 25th, 2018
This article is special to you alone. Without mincing words, being irresistible is something that everyone desire in any relationship. Having and enjoying, not enduring, a fulfilled love life is what everybody desires.
Seeing your desire materialized into a long lasting union or friendship is the yearning of most people. Today, you will discover hidden secrets on how to be irresistible in your love life and relationship.
Most people get into a relationship at a very young age. They jump out of it when the desired is accomplished or when they noticed that love has gone sour. The desire for sex replaces true love, and when that is done, everything ends in a hurtful way.
While the girls need someone who is caring, most guys want sex. Despite the fact that everyone have his/her own wish in a relationship, most times unnecessary issues crept into the relationship and worsen the germinating problem, thereby leading to acute separation and divorce.
One of my friends made a statement and I quote, “I don’t want to endure my marriage, I want to enjoy it”.
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Although, this article is not restricted to marriage alone, but to relationships and friendships. It is important here to note that if a girl or guy endures his/her relationship, rather than enjoying it, it will result in problems for him/her emotionally, mentally, socially, physically and health wise.
There are so many virtues that can make a person to be irresistible in his love life. When people think about you, certain characters you often display make them happy and attracted to you, but they don’t stay too long with you in the relationship. They run out almost as immediately as they came into you.
Have you asked yourself why this case scene kept on repeating itself over time? Broken relationships, almost every time.
You may thing that it’s because he/she had enjoyed your privacy or the fellow had exploited your nakedness, but that may not be the genuine reason why he left you alone in pieces.
Family and friend around you may highlight reasons why he left so quick or why he stop calling you. You may also get solid opinion from counselors on why the love went sour, but in most cases, it’s not always the truth.
Most people define what they want in a relationship and when that is accomplished, they flee away not minding what happens to other partner and friend.
A goy may be attracted to a lady who does not like him but ignores the lady who loves him. A girl may like a guy who does not have an iota of love for her and ignores the guy that truly wants her companionship.
He pays less concentration on the woman that does not love him, but avoids the one that loves him badly. This is very common nowadays.
How to stay Irresistible in your relationship
You can’t. However, you only need to be irresistible to one person. How? Be yourself. I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone. If you pretend to be something you aren’t, you are just going to waste time and money.
Dating someone with the intention of changing them is just wrong. Try to accept yourself, the way you are and improve on your weaknesses and keep your strengths. Just progress to become better.
I have bad news for you. It won’t happen. Some people will dislike you no matter what. They will just feel you rub them the wrong way.
Women are driven by sweet words from a confident man who may look good but inwardly unfriendly, and forgets the young man that genuinely loves her.
Love does not envy, it is not proud; it is not easily provoked to anger. It does not think evil towards his lover. Love cheers up and it believes. It has hope in all things and rejoices in what is good. Love never fails.
Love understands everything and everyone. Love tolerates easily. It bears one another’s burden. It is courageous. There is no fear in perfect love. Love power up the five love languages. It is beautiful. Love cares.
In other to be irresistible in your love relationship, you need to work on your thoughts. The mentality of a person coupled with the emotions affects the overall physical characteristics of a person. What you think controls your lifestyles.
You’ ve got to be optimistic in any relationship so as to foster success. Love languages and body languages are relationship techniques that should be properly use to be irresistible in your love life.
Look straight into his eyes, be confident, wink, help with one or more gifts and lots more are various lifestyles that should be used to stay irresistible. #relationshiptalkClick To Tweet
Love languages should not be misused or body languages misapplied.
The desire to have a friend is a psychological want of many people. As the saying goes, “a tree cannot make a forest”, you need people around you to aid you in this journey of life.
Just like the way that an island cannot survive alone, so it is with everybody. We need people around us at one point of our life.
The journey of life carries varying huddles. Even the rich cry. Pain is a universal problem. But when you have people around you, who you could share your problems with, living becomes easy. This is possible when the people around you are attracted to you. We all need them to survive at a point in time.
Just like a college, so is life. There are a lot of things to learn. When you are irresistible, it attracts the good, the bad and the ugly.
Its one thing to get into a relationship is another thing to stay in it, with all the responsibilities that goes with it. All humans have flaws, but it’s not all humans that have self control over the flaws. This guide will ensure that you remain irresistible in your love life
Irresistible people treat everyone with respect because they believe they are no better than anyone else. Irresistible people are unfailingly polite and respectful. Irresistible people are great at reading other people and know how to respect everybody.
here another approach: Someone most people love, is a person that listen to them, give them space to speak about themselves by listening and who accepts other opinions and tries to learn from listening to them and treat them with respect.
They adjust their behavior and style to make others feel comfortable. They focus on people more than anything else. Irresistible people possess an authentic interest in those around them. As a result, they don’t spend much time thinking about themselves.
People with high integrity are irresistible because they walk their talk, plain and simple. Integrity is a simple concept but a difficult thing to practice. To demonstrate integrity every day, irresistible people follow through, they avoid talking bad about other people, and they do the right thing, even when it hurts. They bare original, trustworthy and reliable.
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If you want people to find you irresistible, smile at them during conversations and they will unconsciously return the favor and feel good as a result.
They look good always
They make themselves presentable, they stop thinking about it. They may not dress gorgeously, but good to the admiration of everybody present. They are authentic.
They love life
They approach problems as temporary obstacles, not inescapable fate. They keep hope that tomorrow or next week or next month will be better, especially when problem arises. Irresistible people are positive, never bored and passionate about the journey of life.
Learn to respect yourself, everything about yourself: your thoughts, feelings, actions, zest for living. As you learn to really love yourself, you will (to that same degree) learn to love others correctly.
Lastly, in my opinion, it’s absolutely impossible. No matter how good you are, some people will be offended. You can please some people most of the time, but you can’t please everyone all the time.
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Dickson Pentecost is passionate about inspiring people. He want to see people live life to a shout out, manage stress, make money, stay healthy, enjoy their relationship and be productive in life.